KENICAMZ #140: Back with what is now the weekly Podcast. We decided that Monday nights at 9pm PST is the best fit for the majority who participate in our live chat. I know that’s not perfect for all and I know we won’t please everyone all of the time. Still, I appreciate those who can make it to the show and of course if you’re here on the replay I love you too. Thanks for visiting our little corner of the internet, I do my best to post replays over here asap.
First up we get into Whitney’s conversation about how to let go of judgements. For me personally the realization came through being judged myself. Being present to what triggers and feelings come up while being judged helps me relate and empathize when I catch myself being judgemental towards others. I find that meditation is a great practice to strengthen our stillness, to stay centered while observing our own behavior. To reflecting rather than reacting and to remain balanced in the energetic dynamics of relationships.
Gary loves to ask anything to do with Porn and Pornstars. He always wants to know who we still keep in touch with, so we covered some of that and things about Pornstarcamz. As well as our role in helping sex workers to build their brands and financial independence online. It wouldn’t be a Kenicast without at least a few questions on race. We explore some specifics about being Asian male and of mixed race. Sometimes racially based sexual preferences do evolve into the fetishization of different races and we’ve talked about some of that here.
Ultimately growing up with any ethnic contrasts can be complicated, especially should either ethnicity not be equally represented/respected within ones own identity. In my opinion I see those who face this dichotomy as today’s heroes. You deal with being and becoming the personification of racial unity and all the challenges that come with it. Challenges with self perception as well as the many shades of societal ignorance. My personal advice is to embrace all that you are, as individuals. While also loving all that your heritage and both parental roots bring to the world. I say do you, fully. Love yourself and own that you’re a blessing in a world evolving out of separation. You truly represent the unity and maturity of humanity. One love.
Finally we may at any moment consider that there is no getting there, that ‘there’ is actually an illusion to the infinite concept. Then it all comes forward to ones self perception, here and now. Ones inner perspectives are their outer reflections. How we be in this world is exactly what we see in this world and what you see in yourself is a direct reflection of what you see in others. Some of these concepts may be challenging to embrace at first and that’s ok, that’s why it is called practice. Repeat this meditation and feel deeply into it;
“I am the perfect representation of my vibration. I accept who I am, exactly as I am, right here, right now“.
Even if this feels uncomfortable at first, just try it on for a moment. Settle in to this perspective and re-cognize how it feels to be in your heart. Change is all ways available within, this is the creative source of reality. Knowing this we may choose to live self-realized, fully empowered and FREE! 🙂