Do Racial Preferences Support Racism?
KENICAMZ #136: Podcast part 4/5 we got talking about racism in the adult industry as well as racism in wider society. How we deal with stereo-types and how we respond to personal preferences has always made me wonder, does this by default play to the foundations of racism itself? More over by identifying people by “racial” characteristics, aren’t we then missing out on connecting with the diversity of all races?
I can’t tell you how many times I been getting into it with a woman and they have to mention; Oh I’ve never been with an Asian man before, I always thought.. (insert racial stereotype) then expect me not to be dimly offended behind my erection? It doesn’t matter how good the sex is, you just showed your ugly underlying racial ignorance. I don’t get off on sexual humiliation or punishment; but if I did..
Anyway I know a lot of people don’t agree with me, even the ladies in the room on this chat didn’t quite see my perspective on this either. What I’m saying is this, if you see humans as humans, beauty as beauty; under the exterior and into the heart of everyone you connect with. Then ultimately racial preferences become incredibly superfluous and superficial factors.
Unconditional love has no boundaries, attraction is perhaps a much more complex and individual perspective but can we ask ourselves honestly where does it comes from and more so how does it persist? I extend to you that as long as we keep supporting each other and seeing beyond that we will welcome a whole new world and find that we can have lovers and friends of all races. As Bob sang so righteously, “One love, one heart, let’s get together and feel alright” 🙂
*Note: this broadcast was Mon 4th July before the recent events in America where race fueled violence has lead to innocent lives lost.*